How to Make Your Parents Proud of You
Many of us that have left our teenage years can remember a point in time when we felt that we deserved more freedom and independence then we had, based on our own perception of our maturity.
Hindsight is 20/20, huh? Looking back at things, we weren't quite ready to take on all of the responsibilities we do now. That being said, here are some ways to make your parents see you for the young maturing adult you really are. It’s only a matter of time until they see all the good you’re doing.
Part of being responsible is being truthful; just be straight up with your parents. More likely or not, your parents are more apt to be understanding if you do; they were kids, and probably have been there before anyway. Just like you own all the accolades you’ve garnered, own the failures. What matters is learning from them.
Work Your Hardest
No matter how mature for your age you think you are, if you aren't putting your best foot forward at everything you do you’ll never be mature in the eyes of your parents. Nothing makes a parent more happy than seeing their child have drive and ambition. You can do anything in the world, but the first step there is to start working for it.
In my personal experience, the last step I had to becoming mature in my parents eyes was when I started to pitch in without being asked. You share a household with your family, so do what you can to keep it running smoothly. Parents are overworked creatures, and I promise they will more than appreciate seeing you pull your weight around. When I offered to get my dads car inspected and fixed without asking for the first time, he then let me drive the clean fixed car for the next month whenever I desired. Try it, trust me it works!
The older you get, the more you realize the plethora of sacrifices that your parents made to give you the happiest, healthiest life they possibly could. Parents are the real MVPs. Spend some time with them, and thank them for the small things they do. Even if you don’t realize it now, once you move out of the house it will become apparent how special and loving your parents really are. If you appreciate them, they will appreciate and value you as both their child and an individual.